Wednesday, October 10, 2012

On your Birthday 12-7-12


 

MALIA- 1 year old
 Happy birthday my beautiful
(1) year old. It’s hard to believe this day has already come so quickly. Twelve (12) months ago, your tiny body was placed in my arms bringing a love unlike anything I have ever known. Your presence has bestowed another form of tenderness and unity in our home From the moment you were born, we realized how aware and bright you were. Such wonder and amazement shines through those intelligent eyes.
Days after your arrival, you possesed the ability to smile. Many babies that young are unable to master that motor skill until  months later. You my dear, were a incredibly happy baby from the very start.
You were ready to babble and communicate everything to us. At 3 months you were able to hold your head up. You continued to condition your neck muscles until you had mastered the ability to hold your head up without any assistance. At 5 months you began to sit up and by 6 months you were ready to sit up without back support. At 8 month you showed signs of readiness to crawl by wiggling around on the carpet. You wanted to stand up and walk. By 9 months you could crawl a crossed the room within a matter of seconds. By 9 months you were pulling yourself up on furniture and walking with assistance.  Your determination to accomplish these skills as been an inspiration to watch. By 10 months you were eating fingers foods with mommy and daddy. You're such a healthy eater. Seaweed, fish, quinioa, all sorts of veggies and green smoothies.
At 11 month you were admitted into the hospital  for a kidney infection and scared your father and I half to dealth!
 At 11 and 12 months you dance, sing and love to chase daddy around the house screaming in a high pitch voice. You have you father an I in stitches everytime you decide to gabber on a conversation and laugh at what you just said. You have learned to sign baby, dog, cracker, eat, and all done. you have also learned to shake your head in dissaproval when you dont want something.
Your daddy and I have enjoyed watching you learn and grow. You have given us a second chance to experience life again vicariously through your eyes. Every milestone and motor skill you master is  an amazement  to observe. Holidays have even more meaning now that we are able to share them with you. Nothing in our past is more important than that of our future with you. You have made our house a home and our union a family.
 Your laughter and smile are infectious, it fills our home with happiness and joy. We couldn’t imagine life without you and I cherish the moments we have been given. There is no greater reward in this life than being given the privilege of becoming your mommy. I’m grateful to celebrate this day and look forward to countless birthdays to come.

  

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

A Letter to My Daughter 12-7-11

A Letter to My Daughter
Dear baby- Welcome to this world. I have spent hours, days and years thinking about you. Wondering what you would look like, the type of relationship we would have ,the memories we would make together and the person you would grow up to be. While you lived save inside my belly I enjoyed feeling your kicks, turns and even your hiccups. I discovered a love unlike anything I have ever known. I finally understood what mothers spoke of when they expressed the love they had for their unborn child. An understood law of attraction which bonds mother to child.
I suddenly became worried about everything . The food I ate, the music I listened to, the temperature of the bath, the drivers in other cars, and that person smoking from yards away.  I wanted to protect you at every coast.

I loved holding my belly at night as if cuddling you.  I enjoyed talking to you on car rides, describing my day and how I excited I was to meet you face to face.
I counted the days, nights and minutes until your arrival. It seemed like eternity in waiting for you but it was worth it.

On December 6’ 2011 at 3:00 pm I started having contractions. Your daddy and I decided to take a walk in hopes to assist the progression. Later that night as the contractions continued we left for the hospital. Everything became surreal  as we waited for the hour upon your arrival.

On December 7, 2011 at 5:51 am we welcomed you into this world. The sunrays broke through the morning sky to welcome a new day, a new life and a new journey.  Your eyes beamed with life and a knowledge far beyond your years.
The doctor placed your tiny 6 pound pink body on mine and sealed this bond forever.Finally, you were here and more beautiful than I ever imagined. So perfect in every way.Our heavenly father sent down an angel that day, he gave me you.  I was overcome by love and gratitude for the opportunity to become your mother. A blessing to never take for granted.

My beautiful baby girl Malia Leilani Mebust, I promise to protect you from harm and keep you safe. I will provide for you and always put your needs before my own. I promise to guide and teach you about life, love and truth. To raise you to the best of my abilities. To never give up on you and show unconditional love. Thank you for choosing me, now our journey begins.

Thursday, August 30, 2012

Give and Take?

 True love is putting another’s needs before your own. Love isn’t about restrictions or limitations. Love is about trust, respect and thoughtfulness. 
Love is compassion and the working towards the better. It’s about growing, compromise and remembering the positive in times of turmoil.

Friday, August 17, 2012

Today I marry my best friend

Today I marry my best friend,
our love entwined it hath end.

I take your hand and hold it in mine,
I make a promise to love you for all time.

My wish to the heaves has  finally come true
for today I am united with you.

My heart is yours and you hold the key
A love for all time, from now to eternity.

As we head through life and all its many phases
I promise to love you in all your different stages.
In times of anger, hurt or frustration.
In times of silliness, joy and celebration.

I promise to always see the man I marry today,
through troubles or contentment, beside I will stay.

Today I marry my best friend.
Our love entwined it hath end.

By: Aubrey Clark dedicated to Brad Mebust

Monday, August 13, 2012

Malia's 1st birthday cake

Healthy First Birthday Cake Recipes - Sugar Free Applesauce and Banana Cake Healthy First Birthday Cake Recipe

8 oz (2 cups) whole wheat flour
1 tbsp wheat germ
1 heaped tsp baking soda
1 tsp cinnamon (optional)
6 medium, ripe bananas - mashed
8 fl oz (1 cup) sugar-free applesauce
2-4 fl oz (1/4 to 1/2 cup) soy milk


Preheat the oven to 325 deg F (160 deg C).
In a bowl, combine the flour, wheat germ, baking soda and cinnamon.
In a separate bowl, combine the applesauce with the mashed bananas and 1/4 cup milk.
Pour the applesauce mixture into the bowl with the dry ingredients and mix thoroughly. If the mixture seems dry, you can add up to another 1/4 cup milk.
Pour into a greased 9" x 9" square or 9" round pan and bake for around 1 to 1 1/2 hours. The cake is ready when a sharp knife inserted into the middle comes out clean.


Read more: http://www.homemade-baby-food-recipes.com/healthy-first-birthday-cake-recipes.html#ixzz23RlWJv00